"4 men openly molest girl at countdown party but no one helped her"
URL:http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/3552/4136/300696
I don't get the response received from this piece of news; the most common being how 'disgusted' reviewers are by these shameless and bold foreign workers and also questioning as to why no one came to her rescue, but took videos and photographs instead. What is up with the big commotion? Seriously, how do you know that this so called 'molest victim' was not actually ENJOYING it? In my opinion, the reason as to why the crowd did not bother to help her was plainly because she did not look like she needed help at all! In fact, perhaps if anyone tried to help her, she might have had just demanded the person to F off and mind his own business. Why I am so against the tabloids and the reactions from the public?
First of all, guess what they were wearing?(Refer to picture above) The 'victim' was wearing bra and panties- not even a bikini mind you. One of her friends was actually wearing a NUDE G-STRING and bra. Which self-respeciting girl would wear bra and panties out (bad enough), what more translucent ones, even to a beach party??
The picture below is proof that the girl was not in any sort of dicomfort and was enjoying herself. Check out where she gleefully slipped her hand into. Through nonverbal interpretation, it seems to me that the 'victim' was enjoying herself so much that she had to touch herself. If you were an onlooker, would you have felt the need to pull this girl off the podium or stop the guys?
Gollee. Posing for the camera. Obviously enjoying the attention.Another thing that i can't stand is the riles of blame aimed at the foreign workers who 'molested' her. If it were a caucasian guy who were to grope her from the back, would it still be a case of molest? Wouldn't it simply look like both of them were having fun? In actual fact, there was a caucasian guy who gyrated her and her friend from behind.
No one commented anything about that.Racism much?
No one commented anything about that.Racism much?So i concluded that, all this fuss is just a bad interpretation of the whole situation. Most people perceive or have a stereotyped view of foreign workers; perverse, always having bad intentions,etc. Singaporeans are so stereotyped about foreign workers that they don't even look at both sides of the story before coming to a conclusion.
Also, in terms of nonverbal communication, people have very biased thinking of a situation and tend to judge through artifacts.
Seeing a foreign worker groping a skimpy and joyful looking girl = MOLEST
Seeing a caucasian groping a skimpy joyful looking girl = KINKY
Humans can't get any more racist than this can they? People are so biased that they are totally oblivious to the nonverbal signals that the 'victim' is sending out. After reading this entry,what do you think? Do you still think she was raped and required help?
I haven't seen these photos before! This gives a new perspective to the whole issue of whether she was "molested" or not. According to what I've read, she seemed to enjoy the touches of various men before a whole group of them started getting a tad too frisky. Still, judging from these photos, she seemed to be having the time of her life - her smile, her posture and the fact that haptics and proximity of the men did not bother her - I can imagine why nobody bothered to help now.
ReplyDeleteNonetheless, I think this issue has been seriously blown out of proportion by the media. Just because one video was taken at a beach party doesn't mean the whole saga gets to be a national issue all of a sudden.
yess,the world wide web is an unapologetic bitch who reveals one's deepest darkest secrets and of course, photos that were never meant to be shown to the public. kinda explains why she didn't report the 'case' to the police huh.
ReplyDeletefirst of all the lady who was molested in the above shown picture is a transvestite if im correct from sources. we become some what judgemental from the color of our skin just because their more tanned they are bad, some people are so narrowminded nowadays, how can you tell ones good or bad by the color of the skin.
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ReplyDeleteyeah , i strongly agreed to the part when you say she does not looked as if she needed any help from anyone there . she's just pretty enjoying the time of her life there . :>
ReplyDeletewow i never saw this side of the story..and what?shes a transvestite??if she is then its bang balls-ville for those dudes...hahahahaa
ReplyDeletewhere did ya get these pics?haha..now i get why she never reported to the police or something.and yeah this piece of new was overhyped..never realised the real deal till i saw ur blog post. a picture sure speaks a thousand words
ReplyDeleteOverload of haptics huh. and the artifacts; g string, bra n panties..somethnig so unappropriate to be wearing out, even at a beach party. Even if she was being molested, she was asking for it anyways.
ReplyDeletethese angmohs can do anything they want cz they are more good-looking. banglas are dark and not handsome hence they look scaryyy and anyway ppl already dun like them anyways. the girl is a ho.
ReplyDeletethis is just too disgusting. even if the onlookers weren;t sure whether to tell the police, they shudn't take PHOTOS. voyeurism much???? this reeks too much of singaporeans' typical trait of taking advantage of other ppl's shameful situation. in layman terms it is the kay-poh auntie syndrome. it disgusts me as much as the girl in the pink bikini letting herself get touched by all those men.
ReplyDeletethis girl has brought women everywhere to shame. all our sweat and blood fighting to free ourselves from the stereotype of being a man's plaything has been utterly shattered by her. i thought that those banglas were horrible to do tt to a lady and singaporeans dun have the decency to save their own damsel in distress, but after reading this post, it looks like my view has been flawed.
ReplyDeletepoor indian dudes..they just wana have fun man. Singaporeans are too stereotyped man. i mean, sure there are the bad tadded banglas but that doesnt make all of them bad tads just cos theyre foreign.
ReplyDeletewhat in the world do these girls think they're doing?? i'm a guy and even i think they're taking it over the top. they're seriously asking for it. dun blame these banglas! it looks like she's offering herself to everyone!
ReplyDeletetrue true.sometimes the news hypes up stupid stuff..and Singaporeans being the conservative crowd, will go all tsk tsk.they dont even know half of what actually is going on
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